Anyone who has ever washed-out any time in bars before smoking bans were enforced knows that drinking and smoking go together like a pony and carriage, ham and eggs, peanut butter and jelly. The reason may not be as obvious.
The combining of the two addictions has to do with alcohol and nicotine's differing affects on our apprehensive system. Alcohol, perhaps the best anti-anxiety tablets ever discovered, is also a depressant. Nicotine, it turns out, is a really excellent antidepressant. Eureka! We can ease our anxieties with alcohol and offset the depression with nicotine! And that's just so what many drinkers do. Practiced users can meter their moods with pinpoint accuracy as they alternate sips and smokes throughout the day and evening.
Of course this stability comes with a considerable price tag. Liver and lungs are the obvious losers, but all organs, together with the brain, suffer from the alcohol bath and the initiation of numerous thousand smoke borne chemicals into bloodstream. But it's very hard to stop, as any smoker can tell you, and, what's more,the amalgamation is even deadlier in view of the fact that of alcohol's lulling effect.
"I know it's bad," we say to ourselves, "but I'll quit tomorrow."
Of course tomorrow by no means comes and even if we start to be seriously concerned, well, a link of drinks will take care of that.
"I have to quit!" many say. But the truth is, no, you don't. You can smoke and drink right up to the small you die. Many do.
So what's the point? It's that behaviors are interrelated, are trying to change, and that new behaviors need to have at smallest amount some of the obvious things of the ancient ones. In this case, relieving nervousness and depression.
It also earnings that if you both smoke and drink, you'll want to quit drinking first. Why? Because most public find it doable to smoke without drinking, but not to drink without smoking. One or two drinks will very near permanently dissipate any resistance to cigarettes. Besides, quitting smoking is infinitely harder than charitable up booze. If you disbelief that just question a few public who've done both.
Think about the way you use alcohol and cigarettes, the easing of nervousness and depression. There are additional ways to accomplish the same end. Exercise - corporal activity and depression cannot exist at the same time - books, duplicate bridge, travel, classes, and dozens of additional activities you've skipped in view of the fact that they interfered with you drinking. Time to dust off ancient aspirations.
No, the above examples don't place forward the same fingertip availability or immediate gratification. But they don't wring the same premature fatality and disease cost either - nor the same dollar cost for that matter. Besides, aren't your contemporary anxieties frequently centered around your drinking and smoking anyway?
So, quit the drinking. It's also excellent practice for kicking the cigarette habit. Much of the administer is the same. Replace ancient behaviors with new and more rewarding ones. If you deal with to knock off the alcohol crutch you'll also gain some confidence that change is doable - confidence that you'll need against the much tougher nicotine opponent.
Changing these habits isn't easy. But millions of thriving public demonstrate that it's possible. You may need some help but most of us do with any trying machinate whether it's remodeling our household or remaking our day after day lives. That's why there are doctors, trainers, counselors, architects, and so on. Don't let the obvious difficulties stop you. You'll feel and be much better soon. Very soon.
Dr. Edward Wilson has developed alternative alcohol recovery and moderation programs in Minnesota, Alaska, and California since 1987. He is the co-founder and clinical director of Your Empowering Solutions, Inc. a southern California based, non-12, step alcohol counseling center. Learn more about Dr. Wilson and Y.E.S. at:
http://www.non12step.com